Are you new to the BDSM scene? Do you want to try out some BDSM equipment and take your sex game to the next level? Well, as a beginner, there are a lot of things that you need to know before you jump on to using kink toys. Are you a Submissive or a Dominant? Are you a masochist, a sadist, or a switch? Things can get pretty confusing, you know. And if you pick up the wrong equipment, it may cause you some serious damage. Now, you don’t want that, do you? So, what should you try using when you’re just starting out? This blog is all about that. And do you know what the good news is? You can book an escort found on Langtrees.com and try out the toys with them. Now, let’s move on to the toys!
Did you know that blindfolds are one of the easiest ways to start experimenting with BDSM equipment? And they are totally safe! As you will not be able to see your surroundings or what your partner is up to next, things can get pretty exciting. Haven’t you heard of the saying, that when you are deprived of one sense, your other senses become more powerful? That is exactly the case here. So good news for you! You can feel more sensation and more satisfaction.
As you’re just delving into BDSM, paddles are a must piece of equipment to have in your toy box. I suggest sticking to the ones that are large and padded. If the surface area of the paddle is large, it will not sting the skin much. If the paddle that you choose is covered in faux fur, it will be much gentler on the skin. While using it on your partner, you can start with gentle smacks first to warm the skin up. Then you can gradually increase the amount of force. Focus on the meaty parts of the body such as the thighs and butt cheeks. Refrain from smacking on bony parts such as knees, elbows, and genitals. In case you have slapped them hard, apply pressure to the skin using your hand. This will ease the sting.
Want to intensify your sex session without invoking pain? Try gags! These are super simple and safe. If you are dominant, it will make you feel powerful. As you are a beginner, try using a breathable ball gag. This has holes that make it easier to breathe. This will allow the submissive to not get too overwhelmed by the experience. If you want to make things more intense, you can move up to the regular ball gag. And make sure there is a safe word.
Want to be a bit more versatile with your toy? Use floggers. These are made of different strips of fabric and the most common of them all is leather or suede. Simply stroke your partner’s skin with this to provide them with a very gentle sensation. Want to increase the intensity? Flick the handle lightly. Don’t whip a flogger near the genitals or the face.
As the name suggests, nipple clamps are made to clamp over your nipples. If you’re in for some pain and pleasure, you can go for this one. As you are a beginner, look for nipple clamps that are adjustable. Place it on the base of the nipple. This will reduce the sensation. Make sure to start with the lowest level of pressure. Did I mention that you’ll feel the most pain when you take it off? So be cautious about how long you want to keep them on. Start with keeping them on for just a few seconds. You may increase the time when you get used to the pain. At Langtrees.com you will find educated and high class companions who offer mild and extreme BDSM services and our in-house Dungeon is available for hire fully complete with toys and equipment ready for your booking.
A true kit is never without vibrators or cock rings. Vibrators can be used to enhance erogenous zones placed on the body that culminate to an ultimate climax (or tease depending on how naughty you've been) and cock rings used to prolong or enhance erections, delay orgasm or for the sensation of tightness and engorgement that wearing one produces. Vibrating cock rings apply vibration to the base of the user's penis and amplify's sensation for either the user or the partner who benefits from the vibration as well.
So these are just a few of our suggested ‘starters guide’ to your BDSM journey but if you need any further help or guidance, don't forget there is a wealth of information and experts just waiting to answer any of your BDSM queries on our TalkinSex Forum (BDSM section in the private Talkin Turkey section). Signup today (link below) for everything you want to know.
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“All of these toys mentioned about are lots of fun to incorporate but in my opinion, they can be intimidating for some first time kinksters. Highly suggest looking for some fluffy hand cuffs at your local sex store, or even better chat to your partners about your turn ons and fantasies in the bedroom!”
“These all look very fun, interested to try some of these out!”
“Great intro to BDSM toys for beginners! I love how you break down the different options and focus on safety. It’s really important to know how to use these toys responsibly, especially when you’re just starting out. Thanks for sharing some solid advice!”
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