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Because midlife isn’t a dry spell—it’s the wettest chapter yet.
Ah, the ripe age of 50+. Your kids are (hopefully) out of the house, your career is seasoned like a slow-cooked roast, and if you play your cards right, your nights are hotter than ever—no, not from your electric blanket, but from full-blown, toe-curling, midlife sex.
Yet, despite all this juicy potential, society still clutches its pearls and whispers that sex after 50 is over.
We say: bollocks. Let’s bust these myths wide open and lube up for some facts—with a generous helping of cheek.
Myth #1: Older Australians Aren't Having Sex
Fact: Let’s just say that a lot of older Aussies are doing a lot more than playing bridge on Tuesday nights.
A study of 2,000 Australians aged 60+ found that 72% had engaged in sexual activities in the past year—and we’re not just talking about a bit of hand-holding. We mean intercourse, oral sex, and mutual masturbation. Yep, folks are still dancing the horizontal hokey pokey—and loving it.
Myth #2: Libido Disappears After Menopause or Andropause (aka Men's Pause)
Fact: Your hormones may be changing, but your desire isn’t packing its bags—it’s just getting pickier, kinkier, and more creative.
Many women report feeling more confident, more in control, and more orgasm-focused post-menopause. And fellas? Testosterone might dip, but it’s not taking your mojo with it. Think of it as nature’s way of asking you to slow down… and savour the experience. The Australian Study of Health and Relationships indicates that a significant number of Australians aged 50–69 continue to engage in sexual activities, including masturbation and partnered sex.
And let’s face it: Hot flashes are just foreplay in disguise. Keep a fan nearby and ride the wave, darling.
Myth #3: Erectile Dysfunction Ends Sexual Activity
Fact: ED may stand for “erectile dysfunction,” but it definitely doesn’t stand for “exit date.”
According to a study of over 108,000 Aussie men aged 45+, 61% reported some form of ED. But spoiler alert: penetration isn’t the only way to please a partner. We’re living in an era of vibrators, oral appreciation, tantric techniques, and the lost art of actually talking about what turns you on.
Truth bomb: Just because the main flagpole isn’t flying high doesn’t mean the party’s over. It just means it's BYO tools (umm toys).
Myth #4: No One Desires Someone Over 50
Fact: Honey, you’re not invisible—you’re just not checking the Gen Z filter on Tinder.
The 50+ dating scene in Australia is alive, well, and super swipeable. Apps like Match, OKCupid and Bumble are bursting with mature singles looking for everything from flings to full-on romance. And the best part? No one’s ghosting you for not knowing what “rizz” means. An Australian Study of Health and Relationships reveals that a notable percentage of Australians aged 50–69 have met new partners online, reflecting a vibrant dating scene for older adults.
Pro tip: Grey hair + life experience + a stocked wine rack = highly dateable.
Myth #5: Sex After 60 Offers No Health Benefits
Fact: Sex is basically a multi-vitamin with better side effects.
Studies have shown that older adults who engage in regular sex enjoy better mental health, improved sleep, reduced stress, and even stronger cognitive function. Think of it as cardio, therapy, and a spa day—all rolled into one sweaty, moaning package.
Need motivation? Forget steps on your Fitbit—track orgasms. It’s way more fun and burns as many calories.
The Bottom Line
Sex after 50 isn’t just alive—it’s bloody thriving.
You're not past your prime. You are the prime. Whether you're rekindling the spark, starting fresh, or exploring solo pleasure with your new rechargeable best friend, the message is simple:
You’re not dried up—you’re just getting started.
So let the myths crumble like bad first dates and start writing your own erotic epilogue. You’ve earned it.
Author: AmandaO
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“TLDR: it's more nuanced than a lot of commenters make out. This is just my experience.
The first obvious point is that people vary tremendously - I don't think I have to elaborate on that, blanket statements like sex getting better over 50 may apply to some, not to others. In my own case (60 with ED) sex has changed hugely over the last 10-15 years. This is a personal genuine Pros/Cons for me:
Cons:
(1) I have been open to trying different things/kinks that I never thought I'd try to gain sexual enjoyment. This means seeing working ladies as my wife is genuinely conservative and of course that carries the chance of being found out - which would be awful.
(2) I understand the "body positive" angle. For me it just doesn't reflect reality, I have a mirror and don't expect to look young. But seeing the weight and wear and tear over the years doesn't mean I am falling for a stereotype - I am just recognising what I see.
(3) So when I come to an establishment to see a 30 something lady, and ask for services that are out of the ordinary I genuinely feel empathy for her. Yes I know she is a professional and many are kind. However I know that when I was in my 30s I would not have looked twice at a lady of 60 with my present physical state. And that really is OK - it is just nature at work. Younger people, who are still in their breeding years, may not all be beautiful physically, but more youthful skin, health, better energy etc does make a sensible tangible difference.
(4) Although there are alternatives to pleasure for someone in my position, no fleshlight etc will come close to the feeling and intimacy of joining your body with someone else. It is true that penetration isn't everything, but for this man the inability to feel that and the closeness that comes with it is a genuine loss. I don't know whether women feel that generally with their partners but it holds true for me.
Pros:
(1) Mainly wisdom and experience. So there is full recognition that what one woman enjoys another may not and an increased sense that giving pleasure is incredibly satisfying. Of course, I recognise that a working lady seeing her "xth" client of the day is not going to obtain sexual pleasure from the encounter despite my best efforts. In that way she may appreciate my courtesy in making the appointment respectful - but not much more than that.
(2) Being able to see a woman in her 30s with soft skin and other natural attributes is better than stepping into a time machine. It is a bit like I am younger again but more than that - men have not been painting, photographing women nudes for thousands of years for no reason. Women's bodies, while complex, reproduce the human race both biologically and mostly raising children as well as often being the ones to hold a family together or pick up the pieces if things don't work out, simply have an innate beauty and grace. Of course they are also equipped with intellect, humour and their own human frailty - it is a bit unfortunate that qualification still has to be added instead of simply known.
Apols for the length and kind regards.
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“Really enjoyed this piece! It’s refreshing to see a candid and positive take on sexuality after 50 that challenges the outdated myths many of us still carry. Confidence, experience, better communication and a deeper focus on pleasure really can make sex more fulfilling as we age, and it’s great to see that celebrated here rather than dismissed. Thanks for normalizing honest conversations around sex and aging
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“I totally love this post sex will always be enjoyable and fun not matter how old you get it will always be part of our nature. ”
“Another great reminder that life is what we make it and not the stereotypes thrown our way! ”
“Love this! Great to see someone normalising and celebrating that intimacy and pleasure evolve with age.”
“I'm in the over 60 bracket and sex has pretty much come to a slow Holt. My back goes out more than I do . 😁”
“I’m not sure it’s a crisis at all — it feels more like freedom. Freedom of choice, confidence, and self-knowledge. With age often comes clarity about what you want, what you don’t, and the confidence to own it without apology.
Sex getting better over 50 or any age really, isn’t about chasing youth; it’s about shedding pressure, expectations, societal conditioning, & ego. That perspective shift is refreshing and empowering — thank you for putting it into words.💥💥
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“Love this—funny, frank, and finally saying out loud what so many of us already know. Midlife sex isn’t a sad afterthought; it’s confident, creative, and gloriously pressure-free. Less performance, more pleasure. Less myth, more reality. Thank you for busting the nonsense, celebrating experience, and reminding us that desire doesn’t expire—it evolves. Here’s to being over 50, over the shame, and very much not over the fun. 🔥”
“Not yet 50, but sex has gotten better as I've gotten older. More confident in who I am, knowing what I enjoy, open to exploration, better understanding of my partner and less concerned about failure or embarresment.”
“With age comes experience. You know exactly what you like. And how to make the ladies feel amazing also ”
“I’m not past my prime—I AM the prime. Sex after 50? It’s the wettest, wildest, most liberating chapter yet. Who’s with me?”
“This was such a refreshing read! It's about time we normalised and celebrated sexuality at every stage of life. Thank you for busting these tired old myths with humour and honesty.”
“Loved this cheeky, empowering take on midlife sexuality! It’s refreshing to see the myths around sex after 50 get the sassy takedown they deserve. Confidence, experience, and a bit of lube make for a far more satisfying chapter—and it’s about time we celebrated that. From ditching outdated stigmas to embracing toys, apps, and honest communication, this piece proves that passion doesn’t retire—it evolves. Here’s to redefining “midlife crisis” as a sexual renaissance. Hot flashes? More like fireworks. Keep the fan on and the lights dimmed—we’re just hitting our stride. Cheers to the best sex after the so-called best years!”
“Sex gets better with age because experience, confidence, and communication improve intimacy, making it more fulfilling and exciting than ever before.”
“Age is not a problem with the right attitude”
“Whether you’re reigniting the spark, starting fresh, or enjoying some solo time with your new rechargeable buddy, you’re not past your prime!”
“"After 50, older people are more interested in the pleasure of intimacy, rather than solely focusing on physical intercourse. When older adults have sex, dopamine, which is released during orgasm, brings pleasure, and that creates a physiological pleasure response in their bodies. It also increases oxytocin, which is the cuddle hormone, and promotes bonding and positive feelings of attachment and trust."”
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