We have always been wondering how long is considered to be the best when it comes to that time,
Experts say, one or two minutes is “two less” for women and 10 to 30 minutes is “too long” Therefore, 7 to 13 minutes is “desirable”
If sex is important to you, you should know that foreplay and after play is also important
Here at Langtrees, our Private Escorts can Assist you to last as long as you would like! That is one of the best parts for all women (women should comment if they find this matching)
According to a study in 2005, a Global examination where heterosexual couples were participants, they were asked to time sex from penetration through to male ejaculation.
The team discovered that reports under these extremely constrained limits ranged from 33 seconds to 44 minutes, with an average session lasting 5.4 minutes.
Other researchers have asked people who diagnose and treat sexual diseases in an effort to determine a "normal" duration.
In 2008, research was done in order to estimate the typical length of sex across various categories. Researchers and Sex Therapists in the US and Canada were among some of the people to answer the questions and they found the following information:
When asked about sex, the therapists said:
One woman said her ideal was 10-15 minutes of foreplay and 10 minutes of intercourse: “I find I get rather impatient in bed, or perhaps I just haven’t met someone worth taking more time.” Another said, “I feel like this sounds short, but honestly 5-10 mins plus like 15-ish minutes of foreplay and I love to use toys.” Another woman said, “I generally like sex to last 15-20 minutes, with intercourse being like maybe a quarter of that.” Two women and one nonbinary woman answered that their ideal sex session including foreplay would last an hour or so—which seems like an endeavour! Good for them!
Author: Anna
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“This is the best thing I have read for a long while - takes a weight off the mind. Somewhat counter-intuitively, I find if I go longer than 15 minutes it gets harder to come...”
“Obviously it should last long enough until everyone is satisfied but nothing is always perfect and expectartions can fall short of reality. As far as im concerned, so long as it is mutually pleasureable timekeeping isnt necessary.”
“I'd say 7 - 13 minutes but really depends on the woman too”
“I agree with other comments that the main thing is everyone is having fun. An hour, that might a tough ask for me as I get older! While I'm as horny as I was when I was 18, time is catching up with everything else! :) ”
“I'm under 3 minutes with constant thrusting so I'm buggered lol”
“Unfortunately with out delay gel I don’t last very long at all. Couple of minutes at best usually. With delay gel anything from 10-40min. But I always make sure I spend as much time and attention going down on a lady to try give them as good a time as possible. And so far. That seem to be working very well”
“As long as a piece of string.... But 30minutes minimum lol ?”
“Communication, and if both are satisfied by the end that's all that matters?”
“It is variable and not always in our control. As long as everyone is enjoying it is a good rule of thumb. The environment and circumstances play their role too.”
“Sex that lasts 7 to 13 minutes is considered “desirable” Right on target however i do believe being able to make each other cum would satisfy both parties!”
“Communication is important. I think always open and honest communication to the partner for the best outcome possible”
“If you do the lead up right the sex shouldn't last long Although a quicky is definitely less desirable especially if you like intimacy like I do!”
“Depends who it is with ?. I’ve had times when I was so excited I could not last a minute. And other times when it challenges my cardio fitness. The most memorable time was in Thailand, when I literally went till sunrise after drinking the blood of a cobra along with the contents of its gall bladder after swallowing its beating heart with a shot. Viagra is bullshit compared to snake blood ;) ”
“Long / short enough to mutually satisfy, is the exact length it should last ... ”
“It's a funny one isn't it? Too short and it might feel like it's been inadequate,too long and I start to worry for their comfort. I feel like multiple sessions are necessary to find the sweet spot.”
“I think the foreplay part is more important. If you're willing to spend time engaging in foreplay then the time spend in sex part because a moot point. ”
“20-30 minutes as long as both partners are being engaged and satisfied imo…. ”
“Personally, I aim for at least 20 minutes of foreplay and 10 minutes of intercourse.”
“I think it depends on the rapport I have with the lady. A first time booking will be a little bit more talking and getting comfortable, and a regular will be the same, but more of a naturally flowing conversation. I've definitley had bookings where we are talking and we both said oh you came here for sex hahaha.”
“20-30 mins would be ideal for the entire session including foreplay for the majority of that time.”
“This blog offers an insightful look at how preferences for the ideal duration of sex can vary widely, highlighting the importance of foreplay and communication in achieving satisfaction. It’s a reminder that quality matters more than quantity, and everyone’s "perfect timing" is different!”
“So interesting to see the different opinions about how long it should be but also I am a bit surprised that 30 min are considered to long. So in my opinion, as a working girl, I go in two very very different ways. On the job, the sooner they come the better haha. Unless with some clients, I actually have a really nice vibe and enjoy their company. So I want them to stay and mabey make it last longer. And privately, it's not really about the time...like time shouldn't matter. It's the foreplay, the touch, enjoying each other getting heated up. And the mood can be so so different each time. Like if it's just a one night stand obviously there are by far not as many emotions involved as with someone you are in love with, so the kind of sex might be different. But then also including my everyday mood I have had moments that lasted the whole night with mabey a few brakes to drink some water and i wish it would have kept going haha and other days I was happy after a few minutes. And if the guy comes to quick we'll there is a lot of other things to do even to mabey just overcome time until he can mabey go again.”
“Half an hour is normally plenty for the whole session, and I reckon that includes about ten minutes of sex. I'm sure that's pretty standard. I sometimes feel with escorts that they will just be happier for me to get on with it, and thus I can end up rushing a bit. Completely different situation in personal life...”
“It's always interesting to see everybody's different opinions on what works for them, and how it differs depending on the individual. Personally for me anything up to 30 minutes is good, with at least 2/3's of that time being spent on foreplay.”
“Personally 15-30 minutes including foreplay, I believe is a good range but of course sex should not be TIMED! What matters more is rather it was satisfying and enjoyable by both parties.”
“That's enlightening. I used to take too long, and then lose interest when rushed. These days I get stressed and go too hard to try and end quicker, which is not enjoyable either. Perhaps more time for foreplay would be better”
“I like between 15-30 minutes”
“I agree with Bonnie's comment that sex is different each and every occasion. However based on the therapists guidelines above I would be considered 'too long' on most occasions. Once you get into the zone of eroticism it keeps you charged and wanting more! Why stop :-)”
“Make every second worth and every touch unforgettable! ? ”
“Sex is different each and every occasion, plus time flies when you're having fun. As long as it feels good for everyone involved, all are respectful, and it's a pleasurable experience, then I believe time is irrelevant. Definitely nothing beats a kerpow orgasm though!!!”
“I feel if both parties enjoy from the experience It doesn’t really matter how long the event went for. As long as both parties are satisfied ”
“Time is just a number. As long both parties are satisfied.”
“I believe the most important thing is that the client feel satisfied and comfortable, regardless of duration. What matters most is mutual enjoyment and communication rather than focusing on a specific time frame”
“Foreplay, intercourse and after care are all very important parts of sex! I find that as long as all three elements are included, the duration isn't that important. It is interesting to read this study though, to gain other people's perceptions on this.”
“Well that’s a revelation about the average duration of sex and a lot quicker than I’d have thought. It’s no wonder some WL’s get a bit grumpy when they think clients are taking too long and want to finish with a hj after 10 minutes….”
“It is variable and not always in our control. As long as everyone is enjoying it is a good rule of thumb. The environment and circumstances play their role too.”
“I think it’s not about how long it lasts but because we’re talking time frames, I think an hour is plenty. If you factor in talking, cuddling, foreplay… intercourse is only a smidge of what happens. I like a man who isn’t selfish, it’s proven it takes a woman longer to orgasm than a man so I think once he has pleased his lady it takes no time at all for him to finish. ”
“I guess to me it depends on the partner. If you are both enjoying your time together then I guess it is likely to last a bit longer. Particularly if you can create a good rapport with a W/L I have been lucky to be able to do this with a few I have interacted with over time”
“I often have clients ask if they have ejaculated too quickly, feeling embarrassed by their few minutes of stamina. I always let them know that the most important thing is for both people to be having a good time. Ok so you came before her, that doesn't mean the act needs to end. Please her in other ways, toys, touch, mouth. I've had sessions that have lasted 5 minutes, and sessions that have lasted 3 hours. I was able to enjoy myself during both sessions because my bed partner and I were in the moment, wanting each other to enjoy themselves, not just focusing on his orgasm as the end goal. ”
“I often have clients ask if they have ejaculated too quickly, feeling embarrassed by their few minutes of stamina. I always let them know that the most important thing is for both people to be having a good time. Ok so you came before her, that doesn't mean the act needs to end. Please her in other ways, toys, touch, mouth. I've had session that have lasted 5 minutes, and sessions that have lasted 3 hours. I was able to enjoy myself during both sessions because my bed partner and I were in the moment, wanting each other to enjoy themselves, not just focusing on his orgasm as the end goal. ”
“Great blog .. personally lasting during sex depends on two when in tango, sometimes the chemistry is just so strong and hot that I can’t hold it during foreplay , and sometimes is so magical I can hold off but the climax is just out of this world.. definitely lasting to a point that both parties enjoy themselves is what I think suitable but case by case .. Great blog by the way ”
“I really appreciate how this blog provides a thoughtful and balanced perspective on sex duration. It’s refreshing to see a discussion that moves beyond the pressure of unrealistic expectations and instead focuses on the importance of communication, intimacy, and personal connection in a healthy sexual relationship. The tips and insights shared are practical, and the emphasis on mutual enjoyment is exactly what many people need to hear. It’s a great reminder that quality matters more than quantity. Thank you Anna ”
“This was such a fun and interesting read! It’s cool to see actual research on how long sex typically lasts and what’s considered “ideal”. The breakdown of different opinions and preferences really shows how everyone’s needs and experiences can vary and that there is no real answer to the question. I also love the reminder that foreplay and afterplay are just as important as the main event - so true! Plus, the shoutout to Langtrees’ escorts being able to help you hit your goals is a cheeky little bonus.”
“I love how the post mentions that some people are all about that hour-long session—talk about dedication! ? Whether it's 5 minutes or 30, it's all about what works for you, and foreplay can totally make it a game changer!”
“Wow, this blog really spoke to me. I’ve always been curious about topics like this but never really knew where to start or how to approach them. Reading this felt like having a genuine conversation with someone who truly understands the complexities of life and relationships. One part that really stuck with me was [insert a specific part of the blog if you want to mention something specific]. It reminded me of my own journey, and honestly, it’s refreshing to see someone address these things so openly and without judgment. Thank you for putting this out there—it’s not just insightful but also makes readers like me feel seen and understood. Looking forward to more content like this!”
“This is an interesting and insightful post! It’s fascinating to see how perspectives on the "ideal" duration of sex can vary so much. The emphasis on foreplay is spot on, intimacy is about more than just the act itself. The variety of responses from individuals highlights how important communication and understanding are in creating a fulfilling experience for everyone involved. Ultimately (as other people have already pointed out)- there’s no one size fits all answer, and the “ideal” is whatever feels right for you and your partner(s).”
“It really depends on the people involved and what feels right for them. Communication and understanding are essential for a satisfying experience for both partners. It should be about quality and connection rather than a specific time frame. Just focus on enjoying the moment and each other's company!”
“When I started working 45 years ago, I was asked to start immediately, with only one other girl on shift...I asked for any help on how to do this...she said if the penetrative sex lasted longer than 5 minutes, I was doing something wrong. She said to use foreplay, and he would think he had been at it the whole hour. I became a bit of a clock watcher; hence, I have never allowed myself to be in our rooms as you can learn time through the service you provide. The massage was always 1/3rd of the service, and many a time, clients ejaculated whilst I was massaging and doing body slides.”
“Age, experience, the excitement of a new encoiunter or the fulfilment of familiar territory all play a major role in determining duration. A few minutes or a long session can be just as satisfying. It is definitely not a one size fits all scenario. ”
“I also believe there’s normal amount of time you go like a rabbit you cum fast. Go like turtle your enjoy the scenery the feeling all the above then your have the best sleep spooning lol ”
“In my opinion the average time for a sexual session can vary widely,and there's no "normal" amount of time.”
“''The sexual encounters should last as long as it takes for all partners to give and receive satisfaction '' ”
“I love how you explained that those times were until male ejaculation and how that is 'extremely constrained.' I wonder how the data would be different for lesbian, gay or queer couples. Definitely food for thought”
“As a working lady, I believe that the duration of sex should always be tailored to the individual’s needs and preferences. It’s not just about timing but also about creating a connection, intimacy, and ensuring both people enjoy the experience. Foreplay, communication, and mutual respect are just as important as the act itself in making the experience memorable. Every person is unique, and I aim to ensure that I provide a fulfilling and enjoyable time for each client. ”
“If you can hold on and make it last, it makes it more pleasurable. It is everyone's choice, sometimes we just want a quick one. Sometimes we want to draw it out, this is when we want lots of foreplay, lots of tounge. I prefer 30-40 mins, it just depends how much free time I have. Life is really busy, it's all about how much time you have at this moment.”
“At Langtrees Canberra, we believe that when it comes to sex, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer—what matters most is that everyone’s having a good time! Whether it’s a passionate 5 minutes that feels like fireworks or an hour-long adventure with all the bells and whistles, we’re here for it. ? Cayla, we couldn’t agree more—let the passion BURN! And Mrs. Langtrees, your advice is gold—confidence is key, and it’s all about making sure everyone leaves with a smile (and maybe a little spring in their step). No matter how long it lasts, at Langtrees, there’s never any judgment. Short, long, or somewhere in between, we’re just here to make sure your experience is unforgettable and tailored to your desires. After all, it’s all about what feels right for you.”
“As long as the passion BURNS”
“I remember the only advice I got when I started working was it should not last longer than 5 minutes but the bloke should think he had lasted 30 minutes.”
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