Barbies Threesomes and the Complexities of being the “Unicorn”

The threesome — an alluring, well-fantasized experience that many people (especially men) dream about. The idea of bringing another person into the bedroom, the desire to explore and share a connection with a couple. We’re talking about the "unicorn" phenomenon. In the world of threesomes, this can refer to either an MMF (male, male, female) or FFM (female, female, male), but when people use the term "unicorn," they’re often referring to the single individual who joins the couple to fulfill that fantasy.

I was reminded of the complexities of this situation recently while driving with one of our drivers from Langtree’s on the way to an outcall. During our usual chat, I realized that many people, even within the industry, may have limited insight into the nuances and challenges of being a part of a threesome. So, I decided to share my thoughts in a blog post.

This one’s dedicated to being a unicorn both personally and professionally. Before stepping into full-service work, I spent a fair amount of time moonlighting as a unicorn — often joining relationships in the hopes of fulfilling the elusive threesome fantasy. Now, as a full-service provider, it’s something I offer to a select few couples. But what people don’t always realise is that being a unicorn comes with its own set of pressures and emotional complexities.

The Unspoken Pressure and Expectation of Being a Unicorn​

The biggest challenge I’ve faced as a unicorn is the unspoken pressure and the expectations placed on the third party. It's not just about joining a couple and having fun. It’s a balancing act where you have to manage the emotions and needs of two other people — and that can be exhausting. You’re dealing with a partner who’s enjoying the experience, but you also have the other partner who might feel left out or insecure. And all of this emotional labour often falls on the unicorn, who’s expected to navigate these emotions, sometimes even without clear communication.

Prior to entering the full-service industry, I’ll admit that I wasn’t great at communicating my own wants and needs in these situations. It’s hard to speak up and ask for what you truly want, especially in these highly charged moments. As a result, I found myself engaging in "performance-based sex," where I wasn’t truly sexually interested or engaged, but rather performing for the couple. I wasn’t emotionally or physically involved; it felt like I was just fulfilling a role in their play, focusing on their pleasure instead of my own.

Being a unicorn is challenging because you’re managing not just the physical act, but the emotions of two people. It’s inevitable — one person often feels jealous or upset, while the other might be so caught up in the experience that they ignore their partner's needs. And unfortunately, the responsibility of managing that dynamic often falls to the unicorn.

For me, after countless MMF and FFM experiences, I lost the spark for the unicorn role. It began to feel like an emotional minefield, where someone was always bound to get hurt, and that took the fun out of it.

Why I’m So Picky About Offering the Unicorn Experience at Work​

Now, why do I set such high standards when offering the unicorn experience professionally? It all comes down to communication. When couples approach me for this kind of experience, I make it a point to ensure they have clear communication about their desires, boundaries, and expectations before we move forward. In our line of work, this area causes the most complaints and heartbreak for the parties involved.

I’d say that 90% of the couples I speak with initially say something along these lines when asked if they have any boundaries: “We don’t have any boundaries, we just want to go with the flow.” And let me tell you — that’s the WRONG answer.

To emphasise this point, I’ll sometimes ask outlandish questions to test whether they truly know what they want. Of course, I know these requests are outside their comfort zones, but the point is to show that they do have boundaries, and it’s essential to express them. I’ve had some of the best unicorn experiences at work, but one thing that remains non-negotiable is that the couple comes to the table with a clear game plan. This helps for a few reasons: it allows me to give an accurate quote for what they’re asking for; and gives me the opportunity to explain what I’m comfortable offering. More importantly, it sets the tone for the entire experience by ensuring that everyone involved is on the same page.

Without clear communication, there’s a higher likelihood that someone will get hurt emotionally or feel left out. It’s essential to establish expectations and boundaries before anyone becomes physically or emotionally invested.

So, What Have My Unicorn Experiences Looked Like?​

The couples who have passed my criteria and clearly connected with the vibe I provide have had very different experiences. One such experience was focused on the wife pleasuring me, while the wife and her husband engaged in the deed. There were strict rules in place: the husband was not allowed to touch me or interact with me in any way during the session.

Another experience was all about being fully involved together. She wanted to explore being with a woman, so she wore a strap-on so she could fuck me, whilst I was playing with her husband. Then I have had the experience where we (being the wife and myself) have cucked her partner, playing with each other whilst he watched us.

The Importance of Boundaries and Communication​

The point I want to drive home is that every experience — every booking — is unique. There’s no one-size-fits-all formula when it comes to these fantasies. The boundaries, rules, and guidelines of how this experience unfolds are essential to making sure that everyone feels respected and understood.

Yes, the rules can shift slightly once the heat of the moment kicks in, but if you walk into a situation without clear expectations and communication from the start, you’re setting yourselves up for disappointment. When people come into these situations without a plan, they’re more likely to end up frustrated, hurt, or emotionally overwhelmed.

I would love to hear from others, especially other women who have experienced these types of bookings. I’m certain they’ve encountered a variety of different dynamics and challenges as well. Sharing these experiences can help create a better understanding of what it truly means to be a unicorn and how to navigate the complexities of this role with respect and awareness.

Final Thoughts: The Power of Communication​

The key to having a successful, respectful, and enjoyable experience in a threesome (or any intimate encounter) is communication. It’s not just about the physical act; it’s about creating an environment where everyone feels heard, respected, and safe. Without clear communication, no matter how great the chemistry is, it’s easy for things to go awry.

So, if you're thinking about stepping into the world of threesomes, whether you’re a couple looking for a unicorn or a unicorn looking to step in, take the time to communicate your boundaries. Know what you want, and make sure everyone involved is on the same page. This is the foundation of a truly fulfilling experience for all parties involved.

I look forward to hearing from others who have their own stories to share — because every experience adds a new layer of understanding to what it means to be a unicorn.

xx Barbie

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